To Connect Or Not To Connect...That Is The Question 7th Day

by Administrator 7. January 2011 18:48

What do we need to stay alive? Obviously,  we need some basic things such as air, water, food,shelter...love... Yes, I realize love is not in the same category ... but I believe it should be.

 Our scientists broke down the needs of us humans  and constructed the model based on importance. Starting with food etc. climbing up all the way to family unit, love, creative activity etc. So I just "jumped" a  little bit ahead of our "pyramid "with love but  I believe,  we need it even  more then we  realize...It doesn't have to be necessary romantic type, just pure connection with another person or sometimes, its not even a person. Could be our pet...no, I am not joking, connection is  connection and I am truly convinced of it. On occasions we don't even know them personally ( not talking about stalkers lol)...we just "love " their books, point of view, music...it speaks to our heart.

We feel, we understand them so well...

Part of ourselves is "vibrating" to the same rhythm, the world is a  little brighter because of that, we are more "beautiful" and "special"...just by feeling that  bond with another person. Have you ever noticed how much more energetic, full of life and optimistic you feel when you find that ...soul connection?  As if all of your troubles  disappear ...We don't feel lonely anymore, there is someone who understands us, thinks or feel like us, perceives us as special, makes us feel good about ourselves ,inspires us, gives us the hope, undrestanding, accept us, just  the way we are...

All is still in the  connection ...We were not "design" to live and die on our own, we seek intuitively to be the  part of something outside of us but still relating to our soul . Not the "lonely rangers" of the vast cosmos but rather "kids on the journey together". I thought about this very famous movie" E.T"and how it showed this "creature " from out of space, needing only one thing to survive, not the food or advance technology, just love...

I remember watching it many years ago for the very first time and then realizing ...I am E.T....well... not literally and not only me.

 We, human beings, are  like that and we need love to stay alive... to feel connected, even if it means in  purely psychological/ emotional/spiritual sense...Yoga and other spiritual activities and some religions are teaching us  that we are all connected, even science is sort of caching up with string theory and fact we are all pure energy.  Our senses make it even harder for us,they feed our feeling of seperation from each other in our perception of the world .And our" inner "need to blend boundaries between me and you is deceived.. Anything that makes us feel connected, from pure physical to mental and emotional experience  brings us closer to feeling as one ..in peace..

Make as many "real" connections as possible,you wont "loose" yourself, make them not in the superficial way but by extending your true self to others.

Take off your mask,you don't need it !! How can you ever "sing the same tune" with someone else when you are not listening to your heart ? I promise, if you  keep humming  your own "song" you are more likely to connect truly, then if you just pretend or be afraid to show your own "notes".

So the first step is to get to know yourself and then show it to the world. Sometime its a bit scary in the beginning but eventually it becomes much easier, then wearing an "uniform" and one more thing at the end.....

Why do we love our pets so much ...? Because, they love us back just the way we are. We don't have to pretend to be someone else ...better, cooler,different...we are "perfect" for them...

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The Little Prince

"People where you live," the little prince said, "grow five thousand roses in one garden... yet they don't find what they're looking for..."

"They don't find it," I answered.

"And yet what they're looking for could be found in a single rose, or a little water..."

"Of course," I answered.

And the little prince added, "But eyes are blind. You have to look with the heart."

 

 

 

 

 

 

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